How to Make Love on Valentine’s Day? 20 Tips to Satisfy Her

Valentine’s Day is approaching, and for couples in passionate relationships, it’s crucial to know how to satisfy each other in bed and provide unforgettable orgasms. Research shows that 68% of young couples believe Valentine’s Day is the day they have the most sex.

So, if you plan to make your sex more passionate on Valentine’s Day, it’s time to start preparing. From attentive foreplay to exciting new sex positions, these tips will make your sex more intense than ever before!

20 Tips for Valentine’s Day Sex

Make love on Valentine’s Day? You can do it as usual…or turn it into an exciting and mind-blowing night. Here are 20 tips to make it unforgettable.

1. Get her mentally ready—tease her with porn messages all day

The most successful foreplay begins by changing her mindset, using sexual language to hint her repeatedly, allowing corresponding images to replay in her mind. You can tease her with erotic texts—describing the details of your sex, leaving seductive voice messages, or sending explicit pictures… making her think about sexual fantasies all day long.

The more you tease her, the more she’ll immerse herself in it, and the more difficult it will be for her to release her tension, with sexual desire building stronger and stronger.

However, you should tell her that neither of you should try to release sexual tension in any way (such as through masturbation) before you meet. Wait until you’re together, when both of you are burning with desire, and then unleash your passion in bed. Only then will you be fully engaged, creating an unforgettable sexual experience.

2. Make undressing part of the foreplay

Most men can’t wait to put off her clothes before making love. From now on, forget this bad habit and become a romantic gentleman in bed.

Put off her clothes slowly, and watch her skin exposed inch by inch. Pull her skirt down just enough to see her private parts, then kiss her buttocks and take off her panties… Make undressing a foreplay. Because slow foreplay can help her sexual desire build up better, making her more eager for your next move.

If you want to be more romantic, stand in front of a mirror and let her look at herself in the mirror while you take off her clothes one by one.

3. Sexually Arousing Games

Play some games that allow both bodies to “honestly meet.”

For example, strip poker, sexy truth or dare, or a round of “guess where I’m touching you” with blindfolds.

The rules of these games are simple and easy to understand, making them perfect for girls. They also build anticipation for what will happen next. For example, in the card game shown above, the playing cards feature different sexual positions. You can agree in advance on which cards to flip, and when you make love later, you can use those specific positions.

4. Role-playing Makes Sex More Exciting

To keep sex romantic and fresh, both of you should have a certain level of imagination and openness.

She doesn’t just have to be your sexual partner; she can also be the mysterious woman at the bar you’ve never seen before, or a stranger who makes you focus entirely on her, or a playful beautiful college student, while you are the teacher who is having her come to your place tonight to help with her thesis.

The key to role-playing is not just the costumes or the places; it also includes what you say. You need to free your natural selves and get into character. Once the performance begins, neither of you should break the atmosphere, no matter how much you want to laugh.

5. Watch Porn Movies Together

Whether it’s Valentine’s Day or just an ordinary day, adult films are not just something men watch on their own. They can easily become a topic of conversation for couples and can greatly improve the quality of your sex life.

So how can couples use porn films? The answer is “communication”.

Men can directly or indirectly ask her what type or what kind of scene she likes in adult films, then search for relevant movies and watch them together before you make love.

Don’t limit yourself to adult films; it can also be audio adult films, written fantasies, or sensual scenes in movies that excite her.

There is only one goal for this – share and watch sex-related content together. This will make you more open and communicative during sex, and you might even find some new favorite sexual positions there.

By the way, don’t just sit still and watch. You can whisper in her ear, ask her which part excites her, then pause at the hottest moment and act it out together. So, you’re not just watching adult films, you’re performing and mimicking the scene.

6. Explore New Places for Sex

If you’ve already tried places like themed hotels, car sex, or the bathroom… have you ever had sex on a tennis court? Or on a restaurant balcony overlooking the world? Have you ever had sex in the remote wilderness? Changing your lovemaking locations can bring a whole new kind of thrill. The excitement of being watched or caught by strangers is absolutely exciting.

You can also dim the lights and play enticing music while making love. Whether it’s a weekend getaway, a themed hotel for Valentine’s Day, the desk and chairs in an office, or a dark corner in a lounge, you can make love at any time and in any place.

7. Explore BDSM Games

Some people are used to associating BDSM with words like “abuse” and “pain”. But in reality, it emphasizes control and trust. Before giving her what she has been waiting for, try blindfolding her, binding her wrists, or teasing her with hot wax.

You can let her wear a sexy blindfold to amplify her inner anticipation and excitement. You can also tie her to the bed, whisper some teasing or rape words in her ear. At the same time, thrust your penis into her vaginal, which will greatly satisfy your sense of conquest. Of course, you must ensure that her body is in a comfortable state throughout the process and do not hurt her.

8. Use Eye Contact to Deepen Passion

Most couples avoid eye contact during sex, either for shyness or resistance. But no matter what the reason, since you are already having sex, why not open your eyes and enjoy it? Look at her while kissing, let her get used to it and relax slowly.

Sometimes, the eyes reveal everything, such as the angle, speed, and depth that she likes the best. Even if she doesn’t say it, you can understand it through her eyes.

If she tries to look away, gently hold her chin and turn her face toward you, making her look into your eyes during arousal or orgasm.

Some women tend to keep their eyes closed during sex, but that can’t stop you from reading her feelings. As her pleasure intensifies, subtle changes in her eyelids will reveal her sensations.

9. Say Sweet Words to Make Her More Engaged and Blush

If you want to arouse her desire with sweet words, it’s not just about what you say, but also how you say it. Speak slowly in a low voice, giving her enough time to listen and imagine—only then can you truly ignite her passion.

You can describe the upcoming love-making scene, arouse her fantasy and make her full of anticipation. In this way, it is very likely that her vagina will be flooded with love juice before you officially penetrate her.

When she was addicted, let her tell you what she wants you to do next (penetration? oral sex? fingering?), and then go ahead and satisfy her.

When whispering sweet words, be sure to control your pace and volume while gazing at her with gentle eyes.

10. Let Her Reach Multiple Orgasms

One orgasm isn’t enough for her? Then go for a second, a third… until her legs are trembling uncontrollably. So, what’s the secret?

When she orgasms for the first time, don’t stop stimulating her. Keep penetrating and stimulating the sensitive parts of her vagina – with your fingers, mouth, or sex toys. Let her take the aftermath of orgasm and then go straight to the next climax.

You just need to put on a condom and prepare lubricant. After she reaches the first orgasm, you can slow down the penetrations, but continue to gently touch and caress her sensitive parts, use eye contact and sweet words to make her reach next orgasm again.

11. Master Skills to Make Her Squirt

Squirting is not a mystery. It requires finding the right spot and angle, then patiently and consistently rubbing and pressing her sensitive points inside and outside the vagina.

The most effective method is to use your index or middle finger to find her G-spot. Then curl your finger and rhythmically press it with your fingertip. When she is about to orgasm, she may beg you to stop, but don’t. Just keep applying pressure until her vagina releases fluid.

12. Games to Explore Food and Temperature

You can choose melted chocolate or warm honey. Food play is not only fun, but also a foreplay that satisfies all the senses. Drizzle something warm onto her skin, then use your tongue to slowly lick it off inch by inch. The softness of your tongue can quickly awaken her desire.

If you set the scene in advance, the effect will be even better—dim lighting, flickering candles, and a glass of red wine in her hand. Let her watch as you drizzle honey onto her body, then slowly lick up every drop.

13. Change New Sex Positions

14. Give Her An Erotic Massage

After a night of wild sex, what’s the best way to celebrate?

Of course, it’s intimate skin-to-skin contact—slowly caressing and teasing her body, especially her sensitive areas—while letting her know that the real pleasure is yet to come.

Start from her neck, slowly moving downwards, then gently approach her most sensitive areas. While massaging, don’t limit to your hands—feathers, sex toys, and your tongue can all be part of the experience.

The most successful massage should end with her pleas and orgasm. If she hasn’t reached full satisfaction, make sure to reflect, learn, and improve.

Of course, if she wants to have sex with you during the massage, you can also let her be on top and ride on your penis to indulge herself.

15. “Eat” Her till She’s Wet (with the help of sex toys)

Forget flowers – use melted chocolate dripping on her nipples to make her moan and feel more sexual. Let her immerse in sweetness while you lick it off inch by inch.

If you want something more exciting, you can use a clitoral sucking toy, then pour cream all over the toy. Hold the toy to tease and stimulate her clitoris. Next, you need to lick the cream and the sexy love juice secreted from her vagina.

16. Masturbating Together

Most people masturbate alone. What if they masturbate while watching each other? Would the visual stimulation make the pleasure even more intense?

And in the process of watching, you can know his/her favorite areas to be touched and the correct stimulation methods.

What a good idea – you can enjoy orgasm and learn your partner’s pleasure map.

You can sit a bit closer, but don’t touch her. You can whisper in her ear, telling her your thoughts, so she knows how to make you feel more comfortable.

17. Explore Anal Sex

If she is interested in anal orgasm (anal sex), please prepare more lubricant in advance. Because the anus does not secrete love fluid on its own, and lubricant needs to be applied continuously during anal sex.

For anal sex to be more comfortable, you must trust each other – because if she is nervous, it will be difficult for her to experience the pleasure of anal sex.

Men can first use one finger (index finger or middle finger) to gently massage and rub her anus, and always pay attention to her moans, breathing and body sensations. Make sure she is fully adapted before inserting your finger.

When women reach orgasm, it is often their most relaxing moment. At this time, you can hint or tease her to try some sexual positions that you were interested in but have never tried before.

18. Try Threesome for New Sexual Experience

You can also try to turn a threesome from a fantasy into reality.

However, the key is that all sexual participants must voluntarily agree, so you need to discuss necessary matters in advance, such as boundaries during sex—like whether condoms will be used, whether oral sex and kissing are allowed, whether anal sex is acceptable, etc.

During the threesome, it’s important to respect each other, especially the third person, and always respect the feelings of the couple. This way, it won’t affect the couple’s relationship and will lay a good foundation for your next threesome.

Additionally, during sex, men should constantly praise her, such as praising her body, gentleness, or tightness. If she feels admired and appreciated, she will be much more cooperative during sex, which will significantly improve your sex quality.

19. Taking Pornographic or Sexy Photos

Set the scene in the room, then dim the lights, pick up the camera, and transform the bedroom into a private space to record your sex.

You can shoot full sex videos or take sexy photos from specific angles.

Before filming, make sure to adjust the lighting, dimming it slightly for a more sensual look. Additionally, if you’re recording a video, you can play some background music that fits the mood, which will instantly elevate the video’s quality and overall sex experience.

We often say, “The beauty of life needs to be recorded,” but in fact, “The beauty of sex needs to be recorded even more,” because only “sex” is the true beauty that belongs to couple’s world.

20. Ending in A Loving Way

If you want to make Valentine’s Day both about “sex” and “love,” don’t turn over and look at your phone after sex. Men should hold her close, whisper in her ear, and tell her how wonderful the sex experience was. Because making love is not just about orgasm; it’s also about making your partner feel needed and cared for.

If you’re in a romantic relationship, you can send her a sexting when you go, or just tell her how you will fuck her next time. If you do this, she will be very eager for the next sex.

Recommended Sex Positions for Valentine’s Day

1. First Time or Morning Sex – sideways (spoon)

If this is your first time having sex, you must tease and caress her slowly, prolong the foreplay time. Let her slowly adapt, wait until her vagina secrete enough love fluid, so that you can penetrate more smoothly during subsequent sex.

The spooning position appears to be a lazy yet sex position, as you can enjoy large amounts of skin contact. This position is ideal for making love in the morning right after waking up. The man can hold the woman from behind, caress her breasts and clitoris, whispering dirty talks in her ear to arouse her sexual desire.

Since it’s a side-lying position, his penetrations are relatively slow. If you like a slow sexual experience, this position might be worth trying.

• Male position: Hug her from behind, press your chest against her back, then tilt your hips forward and let the penis slide into her vagina at a certain angle; put one hand around her waist and caress her breasts, and put the other hand between her legs, gently teasing her clitoris and G-spot until she moans and secretes more love juice.
• Female position: Arch your back toward the man and slightly lift or bend your top leg to let him penetrate deeper.

2. Conservative Couples – Modified Missionary Position

The missionary position is a commonly used style for most couples during sex, because it offers many advantages, such as being simple to perform, requiring less effort, allowing for eye contact, and providing deeper penetration. Additionally, the man can easily adjust the penetration speed, depth, and angle during intercourse.

• Male position: Kneel between her legs, press your chest against her breasts, and then fuck her deeply; find the best angle and make her feel that her clitoris is being stimulated with each penetration.
• Female position: Place a pillow under your buttocks and wrap your legs tightly around the man; if you want to penetrate deeper, you can put your knees on his chest, and then try to press your knees towards your chest, so that the penis can be fully inserted without any hindrance.

3. Maximizing Intimacy – Lotus Position

The lotus position allows for chest-to-chest and mouth-to-mouth intimacy, including perfect eye contact. When using this position for sex, the man’s pubic bone can stimulate her clitoris, giving her a stronger sexual pleasure.

• Male position: Sit cross-legged and hug her so tightly that you can even feel her heartbeat; hold her hips tightly or hug her waist and guide her to rock back and forth to complete the thrusting action.
• Female position: Sit astride the man’s legs with your legs wrapped around his waist; don’t bounce up and down, just move your hips back and forth steadily and slowly; say some dirty talk in his ear to make his sexual desire even stronger.

4. Waterfall Position

If she has good flexibility in her waist and back, the waterfall sex position is definitely worth trying. When using this position for sex, her blood will rush to the head. What’s more, it is very convenient for the man to massage her clitoris with hands.

• Male position: kneel between her legs, grab her hips or thighs, and shake her hips back and forth to penetrate; adjust the insertion angle appropriately to ensure the insertion depth and accurately stimulate her sensitive points (G-spot, A-spot); while fucking her, use your hands to touch and stimulate her clitoris and nipples.
• Female position: lying on your back on bed edge, with your upper body hanging under the bed and your head tilted down to form an arch; bend your legs and clamp the man’s waist, you can use your hands to hold the bed to maintain balance.

5. Adventurous Couples – Standing Shower Sex

Standing under the shower in the bathroom, the warm water flows over both of you, two tongues entangled together in a wet and passionate kiss.

• Male Position: With your back against the wall, lift one of her thighs, and use your hands to caress her clitoris and sensitive points of her vagina; let the water hit her clitoris to give her extra sexual pleasure; when she begs you to fuck, you can pick her up and clamp her against the wall to penetrate, or lift one of her legs and have sex directly in a standing position.
• Female Position: Wrap your legs tightly around his waist and your arms tightly around his shoulders; you can also put one foot on a stool (or on his thigh) so that the vagina will be more exposed, making it easier for the penis to insert.

Sex on Valentine’s Day must be warmer, more romantic, more exciting and more passionate than usual, so that you can have a more unforgettable sexual memory.

Condom Sales Surge During Valentine’s Day.

• Every Valentine’s Day, condom sales increase by 70%. This is because couples around the world prepare for sex on this day, as it is the most romantic night of the year. All of this creates an atmosphere that sex is eagerly anticipated.
• When both partners are fully immersed in the moment, your relationship will also deepen. The excitement of being dressed up, the tender caresses during dinner, and his gaze as if he wants to devour you—all of this builds the passion, eventually leading to a tender yet intense lovemaking experience.

Intimacy isn’t All About Sex

• On the other hand, not everyone wants to have sex on Valentine’s Day. But this does not mean that Valentine’s Day is worthless, because sex is not the only way to feel a deep connection. What women want most is to be needed by her partner, not just to be used to relieve his sexual desire.
• Research shows that 65% of people plan to be intimate on Valentine’s Day, but they don’t necessarily want to have sex. For some people, intimacy means chatting in bed, exchanging love letters, or dancing slowly in the kitchen.

What is The Most Important Thing for Women?

So, is it necessary to have sex on Valentine’s Day? Of course not.

But if both partners want to have sex on this day, it is definitely a godsend, because the festival atmosphere makes you psychologically different from having sex on ordinary days. So, in this case, why not make careful preparations for having sex on Valentine’s Day?

Some women want intense and passionate sex, while others just want to curl up in their partner’s arms, feeling that she is the most cherished woman in the world. So, what does your woman want most on Valentine’s Day? Just do your best to fulfill her desires.

Whether you have sex or not, the real charm of Valentine’s Day is not what happens in bed, but making her feel cared for and needed. If you can do this, she will love you more not only on Valentine’s Day, but also all year long.

FAQ About Valentine’s Day Sex

What kind of sex do couples have on Valentine’s Day?

Some couples enjoy adventurous and open sex activities, such as booking a room at a themed hotel, using sex toys, taking sex pills, having multiple rounds of intercourse, or even engaging in group sex. Others prefer a romantic style, like watching a movie together, having a candlelit dinner, and then sharing an intimate lovemaking experience. However, whether they’re an open couple or a romantic pair, most couples will make their “sex” feel full of “love” on this day.

Should sex on Valentine’s Day be different than normal sex?

Of course, even if your partner feels that your everyday sex life is already great, the festive atmosphere of a holiday can offer a chance to add extra passion and spice. You can try new sexual positions, explore different settings, or experiment with role-playing. You could also blindfold one partner, light some romantic candles, or even play a BDSM game to make the experience even more exciting.

How should you prepare for Valentine’s Day sex?

It’s a good idea to plan ahead, such as sending her teasing, suggestive messages to arouse her desires and fantasies, making her feel loved and desired by you. Additionally, you can prepare the setting and accessories for the night, like changing the bed linens, lighting red candles, gifting her a set of sexy lingerie, secretly buying delayed condoms and female enhancement gel, and even giving her a full-body massage before intimacy to help her relax.

What if my partner isn’t in the mood for sex on Valentine’s Day?

Bad mood and high stress can really kill people’s sexual desire. You can try to relieve her mood and stress, such as giving her regular massages, kissing her, taking her to her favorite restaurant, and giving her her favorite gifts, but don’t bring up topics related to “sex” at this time. First, let her mood improve, and then naturally give her sexual hints, such as hugging her, recalling the first time you met and the first time you made love with her, caressing her breasts and other sensitive parts, and when the time is right, slowly take off her clothes and take her to bed to make love. The best lover should fight a protracted battle on “sex”, let her gradually enter the sexual state, and then agree or even beg you to have sex with her, rather than forcing her.

Is it normal to feel pressured to have sex on Valentine’s Day?

It’s normal to feel pressure during sex, but it’s important to gradually overcome it, as sex is not a performance review, but something both of you desire. If you’re worried about affecting your sexual performance, you can consider taking medications like tadalafil or Viagra in advance, or using delay sprays to help improve your performance during sex.

What sex toys should you give your partner as a gift on Valentine’s Day?

It’s best to choose things that can arouse her. If she’s open, it’s ideal if she can express her desires directly. If she’s more conservative, you can subtly ask her during sex and observe her sensitive areas. For example, if her nipples are sensitive, you could gift her nipple clamps; if her clitoris is sensitive, a rose-shaped clitoral suction toy could be a good option. If she prefers a larger or thicker penis, consider a vibrating dildo or strap-on. If she enjoys BDSM, you could gift her bondage tools or an eye mask.

Is it okay to invite someone to have a threesome or group sex with her on Valentine’s Day?

If she is comfortable with it, then of course it’s ok. However, before engaging in group sex, it’s important to get checked beforehand to ensure everyone is healthy and free from infectious diseases. Always wear condoms during sex, both for contraception and for the health of everyone involved. Additionally, if someone feels shy, you can use a blindfold. This can help alleviate any discomfort, add an element of mystery, and enhance sexual pleasure.

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